I just came across your blog because I was looking for someone to ask a _Big_ question, and you _did_ say "ask me anything about anything".
First, a little bit of background. I'm a middle aged male, living in a major urban centre in Australia, financially comfortable, somewhat educated.
I've been in an exclusive relationship with my current wife for several years. And I want to get out of the relationship, although my wife apparently very much wants to continue the relationship.
The last time I asked someone this question I was advised to see a therapist, and I've seen a psychologist probably 6 or 7 times since then, but no fucker, including this psychologist, wants to commit to talking about specifically how I could break it to my wife.
What do you think might be the best way of ending the relationship with the lowest probability of negative emotional and mental consequences?
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I just came across your blog because I was looking for someone to ask a _Big_ question, and you _did_ say "ask me anything about anything".
First, a little bit of background. I'm a middle aged male, living in a major urban centre in Australia, financially comfortable, somewhat educated.
I've been in an exclusive relationship with my current wife for several years. And I want to get out of the relationship, although my wife apparently very much wants to continue the relationship.
The last time I asked someone this question I was advised to see a therapist, and I've seen a psychologist probably 6 or 7 times since then, but no fucker, including this psychologist, wants to commit to talking about specifically how I could break it to my wife.
What do you think might be the best way of ending the relationship with the lowest probability of negative emotional and mental consequences?
Go on, please, just blurt something out.
I'd appreciate it if you could email to:
email.x.goowoazz@xoxy.net